Parents This Is For Our Growing Human Beings 🎁

Stop. Teaching. BOYS. To. Be. Overly. Masculine. 

For the love of god, you aren’t doing anyone, not even yourself; a favor by pretending you’re an invincible macho man, it’s ignorant.

I am honored to validate my daughter, Celena Izzarelli with all credit due for her writing this EXTRAORDINARY piece of deep understanding! Salute Celena, Thank You! 🙏🏼

 

Stop. Teaching. BOYS. To. Be. Overly. Masculine.

 

For the love of god, you aren’t doing anyone, not even yourself; a favor by pretending you’re an invincible macho man, it’s ignorant. I see this enforcement often and I see kids wanting to be something they’re assuming is right for them, reason only being that they’re males. All you’re doing is limiting yourself (and in this case, your child?) from simple beauty that the world has to offer? When my friends little brother got gaslighted by his own mom because he didn’t understand why nail varnish was just for women? Guess who came to me and asked if it would be okay to paint his nails? Guess what I said? I just asked which color he wanted. You’re a parent, and a guide for your children. That does NOT mean that everything you enforce is right and Is necessary for your child to follow by any means if it’s directly attacking their individuality. You aren’t a boss, you don’t have total control over what your children want, need or what their opinions are of anything really. All you can do is help them the best way you know how, because worst case scenario. They’ll either become everything you hate out of spite because you didn’t give them a chance. Or they’ll grow up being a mini you because they didn’t get the chance to find out who they really were. Sometimes your kids are going to blindside you and that’s okay because they’re learning and blossoming. Let it happen and guide them the best you can.

 

©️ All Rights Reserved Celena Izzerelli. 🙏

Whatz Happenin, Authentic Reality

 

Author: Bella Uni’Verse

I believe in forever. I believe that the spirit is the love heart. I believe that the spirit is the “souls” (source) heartbeat. I believe in high-spirited humans. I believe in the truth of meeting your souls counterpart in a whirlwind of spiritual dance. I believe life unfolds us in a perfectly charted Uni’Verse’All choreography. I believe in Uni’Verse’All Human Beings. A race where we all finish together, there is no first, and there is certainly, no last; there is only Being Human. I believe that a huge majority misses (longing for what is forgotten) the colors of the rainbow, when in reality; It’s always there even if you can’t see it. I believe we all paint our own picture every day. What it looks like is up to us. I believe that we are all within one system, one spirit, one song, one dance, one breath. ONE 1! I believe we are all one; At least we should be. I believe the day drips with dreams and divinity. I recognize that the sky is not the limit. But what I wonder..... Why is it that we only love to the moon and back? When we can love to the furthest reaches of all galaxies and never return. I Believe ©️2018, 2020 Bella Uni’Verse Authentic Reality, Poet With Verve Publications

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